Nese Kids Care · Mission Valley & RamonaThe 27 questions to ask on a daycare tour
Too many options is the real problem. Nine centers within fifteen minutes, all with space, all describing themselves the same way — so nothing on a website narrows your list. These 27 questions do. Print this, ask the same ones everywhere you tour, and score them side by side at the back.
Four red flags — end the tour early
- You weren’t allowed past the lobby.A center confident in its classrooms will let you stand in one during class time, not after hours when it’s empty.
- Nobody could tell you their teacher turnover.Your child bonds with a person, not a building. A vague answer means the number is bad.
- The ratio you saw wasn’t the ratio they quoted.Count heads yourself, in the room your child would be in, at the time of day they’d be there.
- The all-in cost never came in writing.Registration, supplies, late fees, closures. One number, one month, on paper.
Safety & licensing Questions 1-6
- Can I see your most recent licensing inspection report? Any citations in the last three years?California posts these publicly. A center that hesitates here is telling you something.
- Who can walk through that door right now, and what stops them?Door codes, sign-in, and who is authorized for pickup.
- What is the ratio in this room at this exact moment?Then count. Then ask what happens during breaks.
- Who here is CPR and first-aid certified, and where is it posted?
- What happens when my child spikes a fever at 11am and I’m in a meeting?You’re testing whether the policy is realistic, not whether it exists.
- Are subs and floaters background-checked and fingerprinted too?
Teachers & turnover Questions 7-13
- How long has the lead teacher in this room been here?The single most predictive question on this list.
- How many teachers left in the last twelve months? Give me the number.
- Who is in this room at 2pm – the same person I’m meeting now?
- What training do your teachers get beyond the state minimum?
- What do you pay your lead teachers?Uncomfortable, and it predicts turnover better than anything they’ll volunteer.
- When someone calls in sick, who fills in – a known sub or an agency stranger?
- How many of your teachers hold ECE degrees or credentials?
The actual day Questions 14-21
- Walk me through a Tuesday, hour by hour, from drop-off to pickup.
- How much time outside, and what happens when it rains?
- What’s on the menu this week, and who cooks it?
- What do you do with a child who has outgrown naps?“They rest quietly on a mat for two hours” is a real problem for a four-year-old.
- Screens: any, when, and for how long?
- How do you handle biting, hitting, and not sharing?Ask for the last real example, not the policy.
- How will I hear about my child’s day – app, photos, or a note at pickup?
- How do you handle potty training, and what am I expected to supply?
Money, honestly Questions 22-27
- What is my all-in monthly cost, every fee included? Please write it down.
- What’s the registration fee, and is any of it refundable?
- How many days a year are you closed, and do I pay for those days?
- Do you accept subsidy programs, and can you check whether I qualify today?
- If I need to leave, how much notice, and what happens to my deposit?
- When do tuition rates rise, and how much warning do I get?
Score them side by side One column per center
| Compare on | Center A | Center B | Center C |
|---|
| Lead teacher’s years in the room | | | |
| Teachers who left last year | | | |
| Ratio you counted at 2pm | | | |
| Children in the room that day | | | |
| All-in monthly cost, in writing | | | |
| Days closed per year | | | |
| Red flags seen (0-4) | | | |
| Would you leave your child there tomorrow? | | | |